Take the order that you have and go to your local legal services program. There might be a custody order in place. Child support is determined by evaluating your income and your boyfriend's income. If there is no order you are not required by law to pay child support. If you are making payments to support your child because you are his mother, pay only by check or money order so that there is a record of your payments.
Finally, you should remember that it is very difficult to take a parent's right to their child away. Even if you had to work full time to support yourself, child support may include payments for child care if you need it.
Answered on Mar 25th, 2013 at 5:08 PM