Your question goes in two directions -- first it seems to ask how to get the dad more involved, and then asks for full custody, but does not specify whether you are speaking of legal custody, physical custody, or both. First, start with some background:
http://willicklawgroup.com/child-custody-and-visitation/
Then, consider a consultation with this office or that of some other family law specialist to ask your specific questions about what you wish to achieve.
Answered on Jul 09th, 2014 at 12:46 PM