You need to file to terminate his parental rights based on his physical abandonment of the child, and will need to do that in Michigan where you (and the child) reside. You'll have to consult with a Michigan attorney to make sure you comply with their legal requirements. From there, you'll see how much the natural father wants to fight when it involves long distance and he has to explain his physical absence from the child's life.
Answered on Dec 20th, 2013 at 8:24 AM