Asked on May 16th, 2013 on Child Custody - Massachusetts
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I have a 5 year old son whose father walked out when he was 3 months old. Since he left, he only saw his son once maybe twice a year, his birthday and Christmas and it's not all the time. There's never been any visitation set up nor has custody been established. So I want to get sole custody.
You should consult with an experienced family law attorney to review your options. It sounds as if you and the father were never married. Is he paying child support? Is there a DES establishment case? There wold appear to be a couple of options. One is to file a paternity action, to establish your sole legal decision making (custody) authority. The second might be to file a petition in the Juvenile division of the the Superior court to terminate father's parental rights. Both of these actions are fact intensive, meaning that you must provide the attorney you consult with a great number of facts, because there may be facts that you have not related here which suggest the better option to reach your goal. Of course, there may be additional options available that can be explored with counsel. transmission and its attachments without reading them.
All you can do is ask the court. If dad doesn't fight, it will be easy. If he does fight, you have a basis for giving him a highly restricted visitation schedule.
If you were never married and you are the biological mother of the child, you have the presumed sole legal and physical custody until a court rules otherwise or you signed an agreement that the father could have joint legal custody. If this is the situation, you may need to do nothing. However, if you want to enforce payment of child support, you may have to establish him as the father and at that point he may seek joint legal custody. However, you can contest his request and if the facts are strong enough, you should prevail.
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