Unfortunately you cannot force him to file a divorce. If he won't file, then it is up to you. We cannot advise on the laws of another state, let alone another country, but the requirements for filing a divorce in North Carolina are 1 year of separation and 6 months residency in NC of EITHER party. This means YOU could actually file in NC based on HIS residency! This of course would mean that you need to come back to NC to do that, or hire an attorney to assist you with it. But if it's really a simple uncontested divorce with no other issues (such as alimony, property, or children), then it can in fact be done without you having to be present if you have an attorney assist you and it wouldn't cost that much. You can also consult legal counsel in your country to see if you qualify to file for divorce THERE.
Answered on May 29th, 2013 at 7:52 PM