how can I look at My Husband texting ?

You want to be careful that if his computer or cell phone is password protected, that you aren't violating any laws by trying to break in to see what he is up to. There are software programs that are advertised on the internet that you can buy to check his e mail, but again, I would caution you that the laws may vary from state to state, and if pasword protected, you may be violating certain privacy laws by installing those programs on is computer.        The larger question is your not trusting your husband and his not being forthright with you on who he is communicating with and what they are saying to each other. Your marriage, unfortunately sounds like it may be in trouble. I would encourage both of you in an attempt to save your relationship to meet with a family therapist or counselor as soon as possible. You should be able to implictly trust your husband. The fact that he is hiding text messages or e mails from you or communicating inappropriate messages with members of the opposite sex, should be of great concern to you. He needs to immediately cease and desist, or unfortunately, you both may be headed for divorce court. Please encourage him to get marriage counseling with you as soon as possible.