It sounds like you need to legally exercise your parental rights. This would include a statement by the Court establishing you as the Father and then providing you with visitation rights to see them.
Right now, I suggest you keep a log of all contact you have with the mother and anyone else who may have information on their location. Once you have a good idea about where they are, you can have your Petition to exercise your parental rights served on her.
Christine@Bechtold-Law.com
Answered on Mar 10th, 2016 at 3:10 AM