Absent agreement from the lender, which most likely would not be given, you cannot remove yourself from the note. If you are an owner of the car, you could take possession. However, if your wife is on the title, you could not sell it without her consent. You need to talk to her as there is one certainty, if nothing is done, it will be repossessed.
Answered on Nov 20th, 2012 at 5:24 AM