First, get a protection order since you are clearly in fear of bodily harm. Second, file for divorce and make a motion for temporary orders that includes a parenting plan, child support an order on who gets to live in the house pending the division of property. The children are both of yours. As such each of you has a right to time with them and each of you has a duty to support them financially. How much time each parent gets, depends on a long list of statutory factors. Get a lawyer. This is a long and complicated process.
Answered on Oct 15th, 2013 at 4:44 PM