This can be done. It would help you very much to retain a lawyer experienced in adoptions. The first step is generally to terminate the parental rights of the biological father. Many courts will also accept a petition for adoption by a step-parent, so it can grant the adoption as soon as the birth father's parental rights are terminated. Otherwise they will let you file it promptly after the termination hearing. There are various steps to follow, and your lawyer can advise and represent you. It's not all that hard under these facts.
Answered on Jun 17th, 2015 at 2:07 PM