Thank you for your question, and I am sorry that you and your spouse are having to experience these problems with your step-son.
Your question needs to be changed a bit, for you are not fighting to gain custody, but to change custody. That fact makes things potentially more difficult, as custody has already been ordered.
But, the fight is not impossible. I have handle quite a number of these types of cases and the chances of success depend on the facts. From your facts, the outcome looks more favorable, assuming that those are all relatively new facts and that you move quickly on them. If you wait, then you are implicitly condoning the bad behavior. To protect the child, you need move quickly when the events occur, the so-call strike while the iron is hot idea.
I can assist you in this, and offer a free initial 1/2 hour consultation should you and your spouse want. That will give us a chance to meet, discuss the situation, and see if we feel comfortable working together.
David R. Hartwig
801-486-1715
Answered on Nov 09th, 2016 at 7:54 AM