The old expression "right church, wrong pew" applies to your setting. This is not a matter to be handled by a divorce lawyer but by a lawyer who specializes in " special needs" law, "special education" law or or by lawyers who specialize in disability claims. I would search for lawyers who limit their practice to special needs law or special education law, as opposed to a lawyer who does everything and claims to also handle this area as well.
Most of the lawyers who specialize in these areas will provide you with a free initial consultation and have experience with "out of home placement" for children with developmental disabilities.
Answered on Feb 11th, 2021 at 8:02 AM