You are going to file and seek the court's permission to serve him either by mail if you know where he is or publication if you do not. You will not be able to get a child support order, but you can turn that over to the state support enforcement and they have ways to get one if possible. it requires personal service to get one by yourself. But you can get your status changed to single without his permission or even his actual knowledge.
Answered on Oct 28th, 2013 at 10:46 PM