Without knowing more, my first reaction is that the only way to clean your situation up is for you to file a 3rd party custody action. As long as both parents agree to that, it shouldn't be too much trouble. However, if either one of them objects, then, you are going to have to prove that the objecting parent is an unfit parent. This can be very hard to do.
Answered on Aug 18th, 2011 at 11:25 AM