You cannot terminate the father's rights. If you are remarried, and dad has been out of the picture for at least a year and not paid support for at least a year, then your husband can try to do a step-parent adoption, which would terminate the father's rights. The only other option is for you to modify custody and parenting time. Ask the court for sole physical and legal custody and for Father's parenting time to be suspended until further order of the court. His incarceration may be enough for the court to do that, but you may want to consult with local counsel so you can get a feel for what your judge would most likely do in your situation. You'll have to serve dad in prison and he may make arrangements to appear in court. As for the name change, you'll have to file a petition for name change under a new cause number, with a new filing fee. You'll have to serve dad with notice of the name change and hearing. I suggest you hire a lawyer to do this, because the service requirements are very specific.
Answered on Sep 13th, 2012 at 11:34 AM