The best way to go about an adoption in your situation is to find a good (not just any) lawyer who is an expert in adoption law. Adoption, if done improperly, can be a disaster, especially in a situation such as yours, where the father's whereabouts are unknown. I could tell you the basic steps for adoption, but they'd be meaningless if you don't get a lawyer to help you. It doesn't have to be me you hire, but hire a good adoption lawyer. It's well worth the investment to see that it's done right.
Answered on Jan 02nd, 2014 at 10:50 AM