How does the court typically rule on issues such as divorce? What is the typically process from start to finish?

If you want general information, but are not yet ready to meet with an attorney, I recommend browing your county's superior court website and the courts.ca.gov website in the divorce section https://www.courts.ca.gov/selfhelp-divorce.htm There is a wealth of self-help information about options and procedures geared towards people who do not have attorneys.   Your county superior court website will have detail and rules specific to where you live.  There is information about divorce generally, as well as more detailed information about support and custody.  Once a case is open there are mandatory steps required before you can be divorced.  One of those steps is exchange of detailed information about your assets, debts, earnings, and expenses.   Depending upon the earnings disparity between spouses, one spouse may be required to pay either spousal or child support to the other.    Community property will also be divided between the spouses (not necessarily in kind).  Orders regarding division of property and support can be agreed upon between the parties, or can be ordered by the Court if agreement is not possible.   A mediator is sometimes utilized by spouses to help facilitate discussion around these issues and avoid court.    As a first step, I really recommend browsing the court websites.  That will help you orgaize questions if you then decide to consult with an attorney.   This information is not intended as legal advice and does not create an attorney/client relationship.