It is very difficult to estimate the costs of a custody issue. So much depends on the ability of each party to be reasonable and the ability for each party to recognize that the child's well-being is the focus. Some parents can work together welll and settle their issues out of court. Some parents are stuck in their emotions or their mental disease and have to have every decision made by a judge. Obviously, working together as parents is the best for your grandchild - both emotionally and financially. Your best bet is to consult some local attorneys and discuss with them their value system and their approach to custody issues. Do not be swayed by attorneys with reputations as "bulldogs"; a heated and ugly custody battle is NOT in your grandchild's best interests. Absent abuse, frequent and continuous contact with both parents IS in your grandchild's best interests. You want an attorney who shares your values, understands the law, and has the ability to solve problems (and sometimes, yes, that means talking sense into his/her OWN client). Attorneys vary in price. Your best bet is to call local attorney offices and get an idea of the rate that is customary in your area.
Answered on Oct 11th, 2011 at 5:04 PM