Good afternoon,
Your questions are all valid, however without knowing several key factors, it is not possilbe to answer your questions at least at this stage. Here are some guidlines:
Simple divorces with agreement of both sides can avoide costs and litigation and a smart way to do this.
if you would be more specific and provide some key information for example:
how long you have been married?
do you have any minor children?
are you both working?
who makes more money and by how much?
how much assets do you have?
how much debts do you have?
do you have property in other states, or internationally?
are there any retirement accounts? who has them, how much?
Has there been any domestic violance?
is there a business involved, what is the business and how long it has been in place?
are there partners in the business?
these are just some of the questions that a lawyer needs to know to be able to answer you. Certainly you should not disclose your financials here, and need to discuss them with your attorney during your consultation [NOT HERE].
California is a community property state, and very specific rules apply to assets, liabilities, child and spousal support.
I hope this gives you some ideas. I am sorry that I cannot be more specific but more information is needed.
Answered on May 12th, 2020 at 4:12 PM