While it depends a bit on what County your case is in and the specific facts of the case, it is extremely unlikely that on a first offense, minor 'domestic violence' case you woudl go to jail. The focus of domestic violence cases, for the most part, is to get the 'offender' into domestic violence treatment (not to jail them). I would be VERY surprised if you saw the inside of the jail again. And there are plea bargains that can result in the case being totally dismissed in the end - and then it can be 'sealed' so it does not show up on a regular public background check.
NOTE: The reason you had to spend a night in jail is because the law requires that you see a judge and acknowledge the 'protection order' before you can be released. It is a sad 'quirk' in "domestic violence" cases.
Answered on Apr 30th, 2021 at 7:33 AM