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I don’t know how to proceed with my situation.
Asked on May 12th, 2023 on Divorce - Pennsylvania
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I have no idea how to pay for anything. I am a stay at home mom. My husband is a narcissist and has been emotionally abusive as well as financially abusive. He knows I want a divorce and he has agreed multiple times, just to turn around and fight me on it. I am trying to find a job and a place to move out but we have 3 kids and tons of debt and I don’t want to go the domestic violence route since he is a good dad and I don’t want to interfere with him being with his kids in any capacity. I’m at a loss. He seems to think I’m insane and doing all of this because of something wrong in my head. My therapist has recommended seeking legal counsel. I’m unhappy. Have been for a while. And I just want my freedom and safety back. No clue what to do or if anyone can help but I have to try and figure out a way forward.
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What you describe is a common issue so you are not alone. Often, a spouse without independent income has no means to change the current situation. However, I do recommend speaking with counsel to explore your options. If you will have primary custody, you will be entitled to child and likely spousal support all of which may help you meet expenses. That only begins once you are separated, so it is somewhat a cart and horse situation. If there are marital assets available for your use, that is one option.
Regarding the debt, you should consult with an attorney, like me, who handles both divorce and debtor law to explore your options in that regard.
I trust that answers your question, but do not hesitate to call or email on a free initial basis.
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Answered on May 17th, 2023 at 9:51 AM