Surprisingly, your husband does not need to actually file any response (called an Answer), consent to the divorce, or even show up to court. Assuming you did get proper "service of papers" (typically certified mail with return receipt via the green card or Sheriff service or the rare situation of legal publication in the newspaper under very complex rules which should only be done with an attorney), then you need only wait 30 days from the date he was served and you can then move forward to the next stage of scheduling the hearing with the court to obtain the final divorce judgment. Every county is slightly different as to the specific logistics, time frames, and protocols for calendaring the hearing, what forms may need to be completed, which days divorces are heard, etc. Therefore, you should contact your clerk's office (or case manager if your county has a division called "Family Court") to find out more. Some counties (such as Wake County as just one example) allow you to get a default divorce judgment by completing certain forms by mail and avoiding a hearing altogether! So you really need to call. While the court an't and wont give you specific legal advice, they should be able to tell you some basic things about getting the hearing scheduled or if they have other alternatives. But at this stage, there are state-required documents you need to file, in addition to whatever additional things your county may have, namely a Motion for Summary Judgment Divorce (or Default Judgment, depending on which way you are going), a Notice of Hearing (if you do it via Summary Judgment), and a Divorce Judgment. Many counties have an excellent "Pro se/Do-it-Yourself Divorce package" available at the court house and/or online and you can often use it for any county so long as you change the county name at the top as well as call the Clerk to verify you have all the proper documents and steps. Check out Durham, Mecklenburg, and Wake County for starters
Answered on May 28th, 2013 at 9:40 PM