i have a 50/50 custody with my narcissist ex , he always try to control me and want me to said everything i do with my son during the days that he is

Dear Ms. Hernandez:      In a word, "no."    I am sure that is why, in part at least, you divorced him.  Both parents should keep the other updated on major matters that concern the child, like school work, extracurricular activites, doctors' appointments, etc.  But whether you are taking him to a movie or  roller skating- it is none of dad's business if it is on your time.  This would only be an issue if you were doing something that was detrimental to the child, and I am assuming that is not the case.   Best of luck, Cindy S. Vova Law Offices of Cindy S. Vova, P.A. Broward/Boca Raton 954-316-3496/561-962-2785 info@vovalaw.com