I have a ex parte court date on Wednesday I wasn't aware of it until last night I don't know what the allegations are so what do I need to do

You have a serious problem. Without looking at any documents, from experience I say that the ex-parte order might be alleged to take the child out of your care. You should contact the Court Clerk, and see if you can go there today and obtain copies of the case. If you can bring the copies and review them, you can prepare your response and file it in court for tomorrow hearing. You should also consider hiring a lawyer if you want to maintain custody. We are based in New York but we do provide services in your state, as well as have monthly payment plans available. Above answer and comments to questions are for general purposes only. Feel free to call 1-877-866-8665 for Case Manager.