I have been married 41 yrs would my husband have to pay me alimony if I leave? I get only 400.00 a month ss and he gives me no money

Your facts are not entirely clear (for example, "4cks"?).  However, from a property perspective, the question is what classifies as community property, and most probably (although your facts are pretty vague), a "trust fund" is a separate property income stream.  For definitions and explanation, see http://willicklawgroup.com/property-rights-and-division/. That is not necessarily the end of the analysis, of course; much can be done, in appropriate cases, by way of alimony, or even set aside of separate property -- again the facts are critical to the analysis.  See http://willicklawgroup.com/spousal-supportalimony/. You probably need "aggressive" less than you need "highly knowledgeable."  Be wary of anyone making promises, especially without full information.  In that regard, you are correct -- a full consultation to go over all relevant facts, circumstances, and options, is precisely what you should obtain.  If you wish to schedule one with this office, see http://willicklawgroup.com/consultation-policies/ and call us if you wish to set up an appointment.