I have been married for the 2nd time almost 14 years,we have no children together, he has 2 from a previos, and I have a 23yr old from a previous.

I would think  so.  Unless you had a prenuptial agreement saying otherwise, your marital estate includes all property that was acquired during your marriage (before you separated) as a result of the industry and effort of either party.    It does not include property you owned before the marriage that you have kept separate and not commingled with marital property.  It does not matter in whose name a title is held, if the property was acquired during the marriage with marital funds.  So,it does not matter that you had separate bank accounts.  If you deposited current earnings as received in the bank account, then the bank account is marital property.  In fact, if there was money in the account before marriage, by commingling it with current earnings, it lost its status as separate property.  You didn't say where the 20k came from to purchase the cabin or how it is titled.  If he paid the $20k from separate funds, and titled it in his own name, it is his separate property.  However, the increase in value due to your industry and effort during the marriage is marital property.  In other words, he may be awarded the property itself, but you are entitled to compensated for that increase in value.  If you used pooled funds to acquire it, or jointly titled it, then it is simply marital property The Court will be required to make a fair and equitable division of the marital property.  That is not always the same as an equal division, but most judges start from the premise that equal is what is equitable unless someone can prove otherwise.  For example if one party is frugal and the other runs up credit cards at the casinos and purchasing himself toys or gifts for a girlfriend or other frivolous items, the division might be disportionate in favor of the frugal spouse.