I have been married thirty 30 yrs and I want a divorce from my husband he cheated on me twice and I want him to pay alimony is that possible

A couple who have been married for more than 17 years are deemed to be in a long term marriage. If there is a disparity in their incomes, the one who has less and hence a need for the other party ton contribute to their needs can be required to do so. The Court must find that the paying party has the ability to do so. Since we are in a no-fault state you won't have to prove his infedelity. Alimony is your case is presumed to be payable.