Some of your message is hard to understand. For example, as to the child's desire to come to NJ, you used "doest." Which I will presume means "does" rather than "doesn't." You should, by the way, document that desire, either in an exchange of e-mails, or text messages, or otherwise, since it appears from the facts that you might be asked to prove it.
You should make the travel arrangements, per the court order, and calmly, in writing, state that if the child does not arrive, you will file a motion to hold your ex in contempt, requesting fees. Hopefully, everyone will be reasonable. Otherwise, you will have your exhibits as necessary fora motion to seek a contempt ruling, and also seek make-up time.
Answered on Nov 06th, 2014 at 10:24 AM