The moment you and the child's father separated, you were entitled to file for child support and custody. You can file both petitions for child support and custody in the Family Court. Back support (arrears) only run from the date that you first request them in court. This means you have missed out on FIVE years of support that you can never get! Don't wait any longer.
As for custody, you can ask for supervised visits. This may be initially until the child gets to know Dad. The court might appoint a lawyer for your child to make recommendations.
Support and custody can be complicated issues. Consider hiring a lawyer to help you.
Good luck!
Answered on Oct 14th, 2014 at 7:46 AM