i need a laywer asap wondering bout cost and possible payments

You are correct that you (actually your boyfriend) needs to speak with an attorney.  Where the actual situation does not align itself with what the court orders say, this is a potential recipe for major problems - practical, legal, and financial. However, this site is not for retaining attorneys.  We are to provide general insight in addressing the questions posted.  The best that can be said is that many attorneys have free initial consultations.  At that time, the case and the issues it presents will be evaluated.  Goals and strategies would be developed;  and the likely attorney's fees incurred and the amount of retainer funds needed would be set.  If everyone is in agreement, representation can be affected and the retainer paid.  The contemplated legal work would then be initiated by the attorney. You can discuss matters with any number of attorneys.  Not every attorney does free consultations, nor do all attorneys charge the same hourly rate or retainers.  The key is to find an attorney that is knowledgeable is these matters and that you can afford, have trust in, and can effectively work with.  Should you not know where to start, there are two suggestions.  First, you can search the internet and review the website for family law attorneys.  You can review their qualifications and their mission statements and related web content before contacting the individual attorney.  Most counties also maintain lawyer referral programs through the local county bar association.  This could be another avenue of finding attorneys.