i want to move out of state but my kids father wont let me

You have the right to move.  Being the custodial parent does not chain you to this state until the children turn 18 years.  If the father will not give his consent for you to move out of the state then you can take him to court and ask the court for permission.  You need to have a specific reason and a plan for your move.  Do you have employment waiting for you?  Is there a family support network where you are going that would help with the kids?  You are not powerless in this situation.  Please call me for a phone consultation. Helayne M. Weiss, Esq. Herbert & Weiss, Attorneys at Law, 85 Moonachie Road, Moonachie, NJ 07074 201-44-6300