I strongly encourage you to visit the "Self-Serve" or "Self-Help" center at your local courthouse. Most courthouses has resources for parties that need to represent themselves and should have a divorce package that will walk you through all steps involved in the process.
I recently wrote a blog outlining the basic procedures associated with divorce in North Carolina which may shed some general light on the process. The package you should be able to pick-up at your local courthouse will have much more detailed information as well as fillable forms and a step by step procedure for filing for divorce.
The following is a link through Legal Aid which provides a number of resources (including forms, etc.) for pro se litigants:
http://nc.legal-aid.com/
Hope this helps.
Answered on Sep 18th, 2017 at 8:19 AM