It is hard to tell from this question who "they" might be. if you mean the State, it would take a CPS determination tht the child was a victim of serious abuse or neglect. If you mean the other parent seeking primary custody, maybe -- I doubt anyone will care much about (most kinds) of traffic tickets -- DUIs involving driving with the kids might be a different story, and some judges, at least, have a zero-tolerance policy for drug abuse, believing it incompatible with being a fit parent; those judges consider it a matter of making a choice between your drugs and your kids. The rules for changing child custody are detailed here. If you are concerned -- and you should be -- you should take steps to get clean before the situation gets worse.
Answered on Sep 03rd, 2016 at 3:37 PM