First of all, STOP USING. If not forever, then at least during the time that she can ask the Court to do an unannounced urinalysis. I'm not sure how long m/j stays in your system, but all of most of it should be gone in five days or a week. The mere occasional use of m/j under the circumstances you describe is not likely to lead to a dramatic change in the children's placement with you, if you start taking action to prevent the ex from having anything truthful to say which could hurt you.
Answered on Feb 15th, 2013 at 6:10 AM