Generally, a moving party can always withdraw a pending motion, by filing a simple notice of doing so (the family court self-help center may have a form). There is an exception where the other side has filed a counter-motion, since that will proceed even if you take off your original motion. Your overall situation, however, appears too convoluted to address by email, and you really should consult a family law specialist about your plan, options, risks, and benefits.
Answered on Nov 15th, 2020 at 4:09 PM