If you recant your statement as made to the police at the time the other person was arrested, it will not delete your previous statement - it will just add to it - i.e. "he/she said this to the police at the scene and is saying this now". Sometimes prosecutors charge people with "False Reporting" when they tell two different stories.
As for talking tot he defendant's lawyer, many lawyers (including public defenders) do want a third party present when talking to the "victim" in a case - since at trial if there is an issue about what was said to them comes up, they can call the third party (investigator, etc.) to say what they heard you say.
Answered on Jul 25th, 2018 at 2:04 PM