It really doesn't make any difference whether the mother accepts or refuses your attempt because the law will not allow you to voluntarily relinquish your "rights" except in connection with an adoption by someone else. You can choose not to exercise your "rights" without anyone's consent, but there is nothing you can do to terminate your obligations, such as child support. Financial support is totally separate from the right to be involved in parenting.
Answered on Feb 18th, 2013 at 10:17 PM