If I was assaulted. Em I a witness or victium.

Me and my wife was assaulted on 7/12/16. The deffendent went to jail.Officer had me file a emergency tpo. She got out on a or on 7/14/16.I went to exstend tpo on 7/18/18.was told it expired on 7/17/16.she replaced public defender on 7/19/16 retained attorney.Had a Bench trial that we were served to attend but was told day before by the court answer machine that case was canceled.the person that served us from the district court said nothing was said and there is a continuance because she seemed new councel and he needed to look over the file.no objection by prosecution.meanwhile this person has sued me for $10,000 for mental distress.served me a three day eviction notice while tpo was still in affect.and prosecution says we are a witness.Now wants us to be in court to be cross examine. They lied about everything.I told them I'm the criminal not the victium.I'm a truck driver and this person that assaulted us called my company told them I assaulted her and I'm a drug attic ect.