It all depends upon what your divorce judgment from 20 years ago says. Obtain a copy and review it. Usually with a retirement asset, a document called a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) is required in addition to language in the judgment. You should consult with a qualified domestic relations attorney.
Read the Decree of Divorce - it sets out the division of property and should state which property is awarded to which person. I suggest you hire a lawyer to review the document with you.
Your divorce agreement would state the terms of your divorce. If you don't have a copy, th original should be on file with the court. You should have an attorney review your divorce agreement in order to answer your question. Good luck.
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