Short version, "yes, probably." The doctors are going to not want to be in the middle of any fight between the parents. The shortest path to having a clear path to do what is needed without static is to get a court order specifically authorizing you to act on his behalf regarding the kids' appointments, etc. If necessary, speak to a family law specialist about seeking a stipulation, and if that fails, an order, permitting you to act for the children.
Answered on Aug 16th, 2014 at 8:32 PM