Let me break this down into a few responses.
Adultery--this is not a factor UNLESS it negatively impacts the children.
Refusing to sign the papers--Likely not a factor
Not seeing the children for over 8 months--A HUGE factor. Basically, the parties' relationship with their children is paramount. Lack of contact, lack of interest, lack of performing parental duties are all key factors in this scenario.
I recommend contacting your local bar association for a lawyer referral.
Answered on Jun 01st, 2016 at 12:43 PM