You don't indicate why there is no custody agreement or child support arrangement, but it seems like this would be the appropriate time to formalize things so that you have a court order in place in the event that the father refuses to return the child, especially across state lines. This may something that you will be able to accomplish amicable, since he is now seeking to have timesharing with the child, which you do not oppose. Technically, in the absence of a court order and if you were not legally married to the father, as the birth mother you are the only person with any legal rights with respect to the child. That said, an interstate custody battle over a child is the last thing you want. Consult with an attorney to discuss the specifics of your situation and your options.
Answered on Mar 20th, 2017 at 5:57 PM