if you remarried same person is original divorce in affect if you divorce second time

Your question is a bit hard to understand.  If you marry, then divorce, the decree controls your rights and obligations.  If you remarry the same person, most texts on the subject say that the "executory provisions" (i.e., future rights and obligations set out in the decree) are set aside.  If you remarried the same person, the safest bet would be to RE-ESTABLISH the original provisions in the second divorce (or annulment) decree.  Otherwise, the validity of those obligations is very uncertain. If you need assistance -- and it sounds as if you do -- consult with a family law law specialist