I’m in nj and I’m need of family law facilitator with some help for a child visitation issues in Va

Sounds like your matter already has court  orders entered out of the Virginia court system. Presuming im correct, your claim for parenting time needs to be addressed to the Virginia court system, inlcuding your claims for visitation. Under the UCCJEA ( uniform law throughout the country), presuming one party still lives in Virginia and the order for custody / parenting time was originally entered by the court in Virginia, then Virginia continues to maintain jurisdiction over the case and all claims for changes, need to be filed with the Virginia court system.