I'm married and wanting a divorce! I have a child with Austim!!! I take him to all the doctors apt. Can I ask for a car in the divorce! And can I ask

If the car is part of the marital estate, then you have a right to at least some ownership in the car.  You should seek the right to use the car by filing for provisional relief.  As for the house, if it was purchased during the marriage (or at least was paid for during the marriage) then it would be easy to say that the house is part of the marital estate.  There isn't enough information in the question to be able to give you something a bit more specific.  Just remember that generally courts will split items between the husband and wife 50/50 (this includes debts as well).  However, there are exceptions to the 50/50 split.  You should consult an attorney and if you cannot afford an attorney you should seek the help of Indiana Legal Aid Services.