Im sick and tired of the games, I guess I’m just going to have to Have a wellness check done for my wife since she doesn’t know how to answer the pho

my wife was suppose to be going to visit her mother and sisters and took our son along for the trip we had talked about this so we both could handle mental health issues as I was carrying the brunt of the house taking car of our son , income, epression started when we lost a son back in 2016. We are married and instill live in TX she is in Missouri I have not seen my son in person or her in over a year . She goes back and forth with out answering the phone, her brother is paying her rent she is currently on workers comp , My main concern is my son because all of this is going to and has already caused him trauma and the influence to his and her mental health is my main concern. Our relationship was not a bad one ther as no mental or physical abuse by either of us our son was happy . Now he gets angry and no doubtable due to her and her family focuses that against me. When is all as you know it considered to be abusive and neglectful. I miss my son