The best thing to do is to have a will designating a guardian. You should also give your son a durable power of attorney for your daughter authorizing him to make medical, educational and disciplinary decisions for your daughter. But what about the father? Have his rights been terminated? If not, he will have first claim on your daughter. I suggest that you get with an estate planning attorney and figure out what you need to do.
Answered on Sep 18th, 2013 at 4:19 AM