Is it a requirement for the parents with a 4 wk old infant, 3 yr old autistic child, and a 5yr old in school to have running water in there home in or

As between the two parents the courts in Virginia will make a determination as to which custodial placement is in the best interest of the child. All factors relevant to the child's health and welfare will typically be considered. However, no one factor will be outcome determinative. Which means that the factors will be considered as a whole, but there will be no one factor that will make the court find against one party or in favor of another. Not having running water will certainly be a factor that court would be willing to consider in a proceeding to determine custody. But depending on all the other factors to consider, it may not necessarily mean that party will lose custody. I would advise that you seek counsel from an attorney in your area to discuss your situation in more detail and receive more specific legal advice. This information is provided for informational purposes only and does not create an attorney client relationship.