It is not "illegal" as in against the law, but it clearly shows that the mother is conducting "alienating" behavior and failing to encourage contact between you and your child. If you have proof that she is behaving in this manner, such as email correspondences, text messages or voicemails, then it would be important to present that evidence to the judge. Your child can also potentially be interviewed in order to assess whether the mother has been coaching the child(ren) and attempting to cut you out. The reason this conduct is important is because the court will take into account which parent will encourage frequent and meaningful contact with the other parent, when making decisions about the parenting time schedule. If you have additional questions, it would be good to consult a lawyer.
Answered on Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:35 PM