If there is no court order, both parents are considered to have the legal rights to the child. Thus, you could move with the child to Texas. However, if the mother were to go to court immediately after the move, Iowa probably would be the state for determining custody based on federal law (where the child lived for the last 18 months or the longest period in the last 5 years). This could inconvience you living in Texas with the child and you might want to get a court order prior to moving, especially if the mother hasn't shown recent interest (she might consider an agreement).
Answered on Nov 30th, 2013 at 5:25 PM